So because I am knew at this whole “special needs” thing, I think a lot about the words regarding her specialness. I was born in the 80′s when slang terms like idiot, moron, retarded were used as daily language. I knew those words came from people who had mental retardation but we never used those words directed at someone with that diagnosis. The words were used in daily banter.
Now that Ellye’s diagnosis is mental retardation, I feel like I’m saying a bad word. Even though, this is the diagnosis that her doctor used.
Now that I am a parent of a child who is developmentally delayed, I worry about people being mean to her and using words like those above to hurt her. I am hoping though that she won’t care because she’ll know she’s awesome anyways.
Do those words above (idiot, moron, retard) affect you in your life? Do you consider them bad words?
